Parenting from the Heart
By Steven Vannoy
Tool Two: Messages
Steven Vannoy writes, “There are really only two kinds of messages we can give our children—hurtful ones that belittle or diminish them or love messages that reinforce their goodness, their talents, and their possibilities. Our messages are not all verbal either. The crook of our eye-brow, a gesture of our hand, a smile, a frown---all speak volumes to our children.”
Vannoy spends a great amount of time in this chapter discussing the importance of children receiving positive messaging from adults that help them become all they can be. The following story is a beautiful example of how critical the messaging we send to children impacts who they grow to become.